Year 01/Lesson 07: Showing Love Through Gentleness


What You'll Need: scriptures, GAB 64: The Lost Lamb, scissors, crayons, gluestick or tape. Prepare a bag or box containing familiar objects with different textures and shapes, such as a rock, a leaf, a piece of fabric, a spoon, a comb, and a pencil. Include at least one object per child.

Scripture: Eph. 4:32 - And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted.

Opening Song:  I Have Two Little Hands (PCS #272)


Have a child reach a hand into the bag or box you have prepared, without looking into it. Ask the child to feel one of the objects, tell what it feels like (soft, hard, smooth, rough), and try to guess what it is. Then have the child remove the object from the bag or box and show it to the family. Let the other children feel it. Continue until every child has had a turn.

- What did you use to reach into the bag (box)?
- What did you use to feel the object?

Explain that our hands are a great blessing to us. We can use our hands in many ways.

- How did your hands help you each day?
- How do your hands help you play?
- How do your hands help you work?

We can use our hands for all kinds of good things. They can SHARE, HUG, HELP, HOLD HANDS, LEAD OTHERS and PET ANIMALS.

(display The Lost Lamb)

- What is Jesus doing with His hands in this picture?
- Is he being rough or gentle?

Help the children understand that our hands are a great blessing to us and that Heavenly Father and Jesus want us to use our hands to help ourselves and to help others. Explain that Heavenly Father and Jesus do not want us to use our hands to be unkind to others—to hit or pinch or scratch. They want us to learn to use our hands in the right ways.

President Ezra Taft Benson said “One who is kind is gentle with others. He is considerate of others’ feelings and has a helpful nature. We become more Christlike as we are more kind and more patient.” President Bensen wanted us to know that when we use our hands to show love we are being like Jesus.

Bear your testimony about the increased love and peace we can have if we always use our hands, our words, and our actions to do good. (For tips on sharing your testimony please click here.)



I want to follow Jesus,
Be kind and loving too. (hug self)
I’ll share my smiles; (point to mouth and smile)
I’ll share my toys. (pretend to give away a toy)
That’s what he’d have me do.

FOR SMALL CHILDREN // Gentleness Dice Game 
(included in lesson download)

(included in lesson download)

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A Year of FHE // a Family Home Evening lesson about showing love through gentleness.  Includes a great attention activity, scripture, song, lesson, and downloadable activities. Small kids will love coloring and then playing with a dice that teaches them ways to be gentle.  Older kids and teens get to read about some of the fruits of the Spirit and how having the Holy Ghost with us leads to being gentle with others.  Your FHE is ready! Just CLICK, PRINT, and TEACH! #lds

3 Way Righteous Comments:

stevie kay said...

Tonight my husband was in charge of FHE. After we closed with a prayer, he said, "Thank goodness for this website. With it even I feel confident enough to do family home evening." And it's true. When I used to ask him to be in charge, he would find every reason he couldn't because he felt awkward and didn't know how to structure them. Now he cheerfully switches weeks with me. Thank you so much for all the hard work you do!

Deanna said...

I have to tell you, that i've been preparing this lesson since you posted it. I had a ton of fun coloring the cube! :) My kids each colored one in preparation, but they didn't last through the day. :)

As I told my husband what our topic was, he said, "Can't we just skip to the next one?!" We both chuckled, because our boys are in a wrestling stage and we're trying not to spank. Yes, we spank. Anyways, I had to share that funny comment with you. :) Here's to FHE!

(Stevie - Maybe Nick can rub off a bit on Ryan?)

SAH in Suburbia said...

We did this lesson tonight after a rough and tumble weekend with our troops. Thanks so much for your efforts!

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